Maybe you’ve heard the pop-punk sounds of three brothers: Kevin (18), Joseph (16) and Nicholas Jonas (13). Their album It’s About Time released this past spring.

While on the road, they shared advice and thoughts on the guy-girl thing.

What’s the hardest aspect of a relationship?
“Maintaining the relationship. But there’s also physical temptation and being on the same spiritual level, which can be difficult.” —Kevin

How do you feel about the way that girls dress?
“[Some] girls try too hard to get guys’ attention by not wearing much clothes. When a girl dresses nicely with good taste, it says that she has confidence and that she takes pride in her appearance.” —Nicholas

What thing do you wish girls knew about guys?
“Guys can’t read minds.” —Nicholas

“We’re being nice when we compliment you.” —Joseph

Is it hard to take the initiative in a relationship?
“No way! If the guy doesn’t take initiative, the girl shouldn’t be with the guy.” —Kevin

What’s your idea of something fun to do on a date?
“We live in Wyckoff, N.J., so I believe the best date would be going to New York City and having dinner. A restaurant we like is LaMela. Tables are set up in the street covered with overhanging lights. Then head to a Broadway show. End the date by walking her to the door.” —Kevin

“I would buy box tickets to a Yankees’ game and watch the Yankees beat the Red Sox.” —Nicholas

“It’s all about the surprise. I like to have fun, so we’d go bowling.” —Joseph

Would you rather spend time with a girl who has a similar or different personality?
“Similar, but we would have to be different enough to keep it interesting.” —Kevin

“I like girls with the same personality.” —Joseph

“Somewhat similar, but not too similar—I don’t want to date myself.” —Nicholas

What do you think is the most beautiful feature of a godly young woman?
“That we’re able to share the same faith.” —Joseph

“Girls who have a strong belief system are beautiful in a great way.” —Kevin

“Her heart.” —Nicholas