http://surgegirls.com/archives/149 Tue, 06 Jan 2009 03:08:13 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.2 http://surgegirls.com/archives/149#comment-122 angeldazie Sun, 28 Sep 2008 20:45:36 +0000 http://surgegirls.com/archives/149#comment-122 They key word you have pointed out here is "wife". "Wives" are commanded to submit to their "husbands". I don't see anything about boyfriend. Wives who submit to their husbands are definitely blessed, holy and wise; however taking this concept outside of marriage can and has proven to be disastrous. It is not a matter of a power struggle. Femininity is definitly something that draws a man to a woman. It is not about "holding out" and making him suffer. The Bible tells us to guard our hearts. It is not a novel concept that the more physically involved you are with a man, the more emotionally invested you are with him, and...it is your choice how much of your heart you want wrapped up in him if he is not your husband. It is all a matter of risk. It is even a risk after you are married. They key word you have pointed out here is “wife”. “Wives” are commanded to submit to their “husbands”. I don’t see anything about boyfriend. Wives who submit to their husbands are definitely blessed, holy and wise; however taking this concept outside of marriage can and has proven to be disastrous. It is not a matter of a power struggle. Femininity is definitly something that draws a man to a woman. It is not about “holding out” and making him suffer. The Bible tells us to guard our hearts. It is not a novel concept that the more physically involved you are with a man, the more emotionally invested you are with him, and…it is your choice how much of your heart you want wrapped up in him if he is not your husband. It is all a matter of risk. It is even a risk after you are married.

]]> http://surgegirls.com/archives/149#comment-118 lucy Spencer Sun, 28 Sep 2008 17:50:05 +0000 http://surgegirls.com/archives/149#comment-118 I completely and totally disagree with the answer above. The person who wrote it is clearly v.selfish. It is extremely important you remain a virgin until after you are married, but I don't believe other forms of sexual activity are sinful. www.sexinchrist.com is a good guide as to biblically what is and what isn't acceptable. Us ladies are commanded by God to submit to our husbands in all things whether we like or not. Take your advice from the bible and be wary of anyone elses opinion. www.christiandomesticdiscipline.com has some good information on the origins of feminism it's damage on the church. A submissive woman in the bible is blessed, wise and holy. You should look to empower your boyfriend as much as possible and respect what he says. Beware though in doing these things he's likely to fall head over heels in love with you (but that's no bad thing is it?!). I completely and totally disagree with the answer above. The person who wrote it is clearly v.selfish. It is extremely important you remain a virgin until after you are married, but I don’t believe other forms of sexual activity are sinful. www.sexinchrist.com is a good guide as to biblically what is and what isn’t acceptable. Us ladies are commanded by God to submit to our husbands in all things whether we like or not. Take your advice from the bible and be wary of anyone elses opinion. www.christiandomesticdiscipline.com has some good information on the origins of feminism it’s damage on the church. A submissive woman in the bible is blessed, wise and holy. You should look to empower your boyfriend as much as possible and respect what he says. Beware though in doing these things he’s likely to fall head over heels in love with you (but that’s no bad thing is it?!).

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