Q: ok, soo there is this guy at my church and he plays in the band and i think he is a really strong believer and every thing. i have liked him forever now! but the thing is he will talk to every girl at church except for me, what is his deal and how do i break the ice without being to open????
A: This guy avoiding you probably means he’s intimidated by you. Considering he talks to every other girl, I would say he’s a little bit afraid to talk to you. Sometime when he walks by you, say, “Hey, Justin.”…or whatever his name is. This way he will have a hard time not making eye contact with you and talking back, and you won’t be in an awkward situation. It might take a few times of just saying hi and smiling for him to feel comfortable striking up a convo with you. Try this out and let me know how it goes.